c Day 5: d
The Greatest Honor
"Honor your father and your mother,
so that you may live long in the land
the LORD your God is giving you."
Exodus 20:12
Scripture Meditation: Luke 15:11-32
When asked what the greatest commandment in the Law is, Jesus answered, "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments" (Matthew
The last six commandments prohibit wrong actions and attitudes towards one's fellow man; this starts with the most basic of relationships, the family. "Honor your father and your mother..." (Deuteronomy 5:16). To honor one's father and mother means to obey, care for, and/or respect them. So important was this command to
Strict adherence to this command was vital to the life of the entire community, because this was the first commandment to come with a promise from God. "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother' - which is the first commandment with a promise - 'That it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth'" (Ephesians 6:1-3). As parents we are instructed to "train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it" (Proverbs 22:6). Teaching and training our children the way of wisdom and the path of righteousness will guarantee a future generation that lives to obey the Lord. Ultimately we are entrusted with our children, for the time we have them, to set an example of holiness and godliness that will lead them to into a life of intimacy with the Lord. "Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up" (Deuteronomy 6:7). There is no greater gift we can give our children that will afford them a good life, than leading them into an abiding and obedient relationship with the Lord. "My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity...then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man" (Proverbs 3:1-2, 4).
The prophet Micah spoke of the disintegration of the family unit: "For a son dishonors his father, a daughter rises up against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law - a man's enemies are the members of his own household" (Micah 7:6). Micah had put his hope in waiting upon the Lord. When Jesus arrived He declared that His coming would bring conflict among the members of one's family. "Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace on the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn 'a man against his father, a daughter against her mother...'" (Matthew 10:34-36). Our relationships within our family are meant to strengthen our relationship with the Lord, following Him, however, would inevitably result in conflict within the family unit. So vital is the family unit that the Lord would send Elijah to restore the family before His coming that the land would experience the blessing He had originally intended. "He will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers; or else I will come and strike the land with a curse" (Malachi 4:6).
The Lord gave an example of His mercy and love to all His wayward and rebellious children in the parable of the lost son. As we meditate on Luke 15:11-32 today, may we continue to pray for Israel and offer praise to the Lord for allowing His eldest son to be a light to bring His wayward children back home; and may we come home in humility and extend our gratitude through our prayers for our older brother, that we may fulfill the Lord's purposes, bringing our brothers home (reference Isaiah 66:19-20) so we will join together with the Lord and live in unity in the bonds of peace (reference Ephesians 4:2-6).
Heavenly Father, we praise You for providing us a wonderful example for how we are to raise our children and for Your amazing textbook, the Holy Bible, to guide us as we teach our children to walk in the path of righteousness. We thank You that you have entrusted them to us for a time, to teach them to follow Your ways. Lord, protect their hearts and minds that they would not be captivated by the world, but instead be so captivated by You that they will love and follow You all the days of their life. Help them to grow up to value and respect the lives of all people and be a light to many of the glorious life that is available through a relationship with You. May Your people
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Prayer Scripture references: Proverbs 4:20-23; 6:20-23; Isaiah 11:6; Daniel 12:3; Zechariah 8:3-5; Malachi 4:6.
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